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Thursday, September 23, 2021

Evening's Beauty

It is that time of the year again.  First published on October 28, 2017.  Here it is...as we see light  going down fast....

Yesterday visited a friend from Romania, who has lived in Sweden for 23 years...and I was complaining about it getting dark and she said...."Yes, but this is normal in the rest world you know...so we are now in normal times".  yes, but it is something to get used to---from 22 hr day light to 10 to 8 to 6 and then to 4 or so...aaaahhhhh...

And yet this country has its own beauty....strangely enough the darkness grows on you and the return of light can be just as depressing in March...for the next few months...we live for those months....




This is where my feet stopped and I knew I had to document it!





Some houses even have coloured lights.  Both the residents and the passerby gets to enjoy this. Evening walks are beautiful because of houses like these. And there are plenty in the area. 



The light in centre of the picture is not the moon, but actually a street lamp.  How beautiful it looks!!





Beyond the dried bushes, a light, indicating life!

















It these houses look right out of a picture book, you can imagine how one feels to actually be there. To be in Sweden is to perpetually be a part of a post card!!


Ever since I came to this beautiful country, I had been meaning to document its magnificence.  And I did a bit for the first year. But then I got lost in life and the confusion that has been a part of my existence ever since I can remember. 

I remember writing in my journal the first year, 'I ran home during the day, because I had to pick up something I needed, but I ran past the icicles, and huge trees wrapped in silver snow. I did not pay attention to the mild sun waving at me.  Seriously, that is a crime. I mean what is so important that I overlooked this beauty? (sort of paraphrased).

I have been meaning to document the way spring comes to this country and the massive changes it goes through between fall and spring.  But I have so much video and pictures, and little time to organise that any work just sits there, while I get caught in the knot of my own life.

But there are times when  I just stare at the breath taking beauty that surrounds me. While every country has beauty, each is beautiful its own way.  Despite the cold and the dark, I love the changing seasons. I love the four seasons. Even though they were not as stark in India, I enjoyed that.  The south of India has only two seasons, much like Fiji.

It is the starkness of seasons in countries like Sweden that make time for reflection, and bountiful energy.  The contrast between all four seasons demands we have jackets and shoes for all seasons.

But how we deal with it both indoors and outdoors that affects us. Flimsy summer shirts with light jackets in summer, tweed jackets in autumn, thermal undergarments in the winter and that light freedom of not having to wear gloves and hats everyday--in spring.  

Then  there are the candles, that make an appearance in late summer and are used well into late spring.

As I had said before, it is not just the quantity but the quality of light that is different in each season.  It is as if nature has its own dimmer switch.  

Now, we are moving towards winter.  We had our cleaning day today, and will write about it separately.

But come October, the streets are emptier, people are busy and the evening lights inside and outside the house start to provide a glow.  It is beautiful to go for long walks these days. 

I had stopped going for walks, since for the last year have focused on formal exercise, even got a trainer.  Simply because doctors have asked me to --for the last 4 years.


So, for the last two days I have been going for an hour long walk. In the evenings.

The sun that barely makes an appearance these days has gotten cold by that time.  The moon is not shinning yet.  The air is crisp, and it would not hurt if I had gloves and hat on. But I am resisting that, knowing fully well that in a few days they will be a necessity.   But as I walk along the row of houses across the street from me, the dim lights light my path. There are street lights, but it is the lights from the houses that frames the walk.  It is as if someone has created this mise-en-scene for us to walk.  The evenings get darker, and it is the lights from the houses that make it bright. This just will not make sense anywhere, where it does not get as cold and as dark as here.

People will say, yeah Pennsylvania is cold and dark, but the in Sweden is crisper and deeper.   It takes a lot of effort and conviction to stay afloat emotionally.

Especially for people like me, who have dealt with direction and stability.  So, yesterday it was an emotional walk.  Until, I told myself, to use this to reflect on the beauty of the country and how it may affect who we are, how the geography affects the culture.

Well, to make an abrupt ending here---well, Sweden uses over 80,000 tonnes (have to check again) of candles every year......Candles are lit in the morning and go throughout the day and late evening.

Something, I tried so hard to do in Fiji, but most of my candles, would not even retain their shape.

Besides, with fans and coolers around little flames, can neither win, nor are needed!!

PS: Finally starting a channel for the readers.  Here is the film to view.  Pardon the fact that it is all done in haste.  Two days put together...but some moving images for you all!!

PS: Made a slight change to the video. All of those who know me, if you do leave a comment either here or on the channel, please do not leave my name. Thanks, as always for reading. 







Friday, September 17, 2021

Ancient Ancestry.com: The Jagas



The above is a screenshot of a tweet. 


Got the above from twitter.  When I was about 11-12 a man who was dressed as the man above came to our house and had all of us sign in a book that he 'rolled out'.  The book was  many feet long.  And must have had at least a 1000 pages.  But is cover was made of paper so the book could be rolled and then tied and carried in a bag.  There on the same page, I saw the handwriting of my forefathers, whom I had never met.  And there I wrote a sentence or two in my handwriting.  As did everyone else in the family. 

These are some of the ways India stands out as a civilisation compared to any other current day 'country.'.  Imagine thinking of keeping records when writing itself was rare.  Reading all these articles of writing and how it changed the  human mind in the west, I realized that even in the west, 'literacy' is a recent thing.  What of countries where first, there was a strong oral tradition. Meaning people were asked to memorise books. It was that that protected India from invaders.  When the invaders came and burnt its libraries..because in cultures of the invaders only one book mattered....that extolled their religion.....(read here for what happened to Nalanda and its libraries...)  the books could be written from the minds of those who had memorised it. 

Knowing the value of oral and written tradition together and to understand its need for posterity.....well, India did great.  That is why I still say, it is like no other country. 



Friday, September 10, 2021

Ganesha Chaturthi

 


Its Ganehsa's Chaturthi (Fourth).  Ganesha is brought home for several days....The number of days vary in each household.  Not every household maintains this.  That is the diversity of Hinduism.  This was not a popular festival in Delhi.  But now it is.  Many from Central India where it was a big festival have migrated to other parts of India.  And we get the joy. 

New Projects are started this day, for Ganesha blesses all new ventures and removes  obstacles.  And guess what, Ganesha Chaturthi is celebrated with great pomp and show in Ghana, Africa (click here to read about it).

Ganesha's form has a story and is a metaphor for patience, prosperity and new beginnings. 


Watch a few celebrations here  # 1. in Hindi but visually appealing, 2020


After honoring Him, feeding him...taking care of him.  Idols, are taken back to the sea, rivers, ocean.....whatever is close.  So that the forms that we created return back to the vast and the formless. 



Friday, September 3, 2021

Aakasha Ganga: Milky Way


 


In Hindi, the milky way is called, 'Aakasha Ganga'  Aakasha meaning sky (it can also imply 'ether' the stuff that we are surrounded by) Ganga, the name of our sacred river in India.  

Look at the picture above, it does look like a river in the sky...By the way, these names, Aakasha Ganga' are ancient--tells you about the wisdom and knowledge of India....