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Wednesday, August 25, 2021

A Morning Bow


First published on August 25, 2017.  Here it is 4 years later.  For I have been contemplating my own rituals and routines.  Altered on august 24, 2021

One thing that I love about Hinduism is that there are no restrictions. Well, there are, but they go on individual basis.  Many restrictions are taken on willingly.  For example, people will quit eating grains for a year, or no salt one day a week, or fast one day a week for their entire lives.

There are suggestions and recommendations.  Some people can be rigid.  But the Gods say, 'We care about you and it is important that you care about yourself, the world and others'. 

There are no sunday sermons.  There are sermons and celebrations just about any day.  And a special fact is that the grihast folks (those are householders, married with children, taking care of their parents etc.) are exempt from following any special activities, for what they do is prayer itself. So, most of the people in this stage are not regular visitors to the temple and if they do come, they stop for a short while.

Following is a picture of a man standing in front of a temple, bowing, before he heads to work.  From the way he is dressed, you can tell he is not at a very high position, probably works very hard, may not own a car, but thinks it is important to 'bow' once a day to voice gratitude and ask for blessings from the divine. And he just stopped here for a few minutes to say a prayer and express his gratitude. 







Here is what he saw.  You can hardly see the Murtis, but who needs to see anything,when one feels the divine in their heart!

PS: An Update (August 27, 2017), I have seen the man repeatedly, whenever our times for visit have coincided, implying this bow is a daily ritual for him. If I see him again, I might ask what he does for a living.  But I love this simplicity of incorporating a short time for gratitude in his life. 






Friday, August 20, 2021

Secrets of Scandinavia

How did I miss this? And for so long. The summer is about to end...and about 8 summers since I wrote this and never shared it again?  How crazy is that...here it is for you guys....just look at the color and look the lupin....smiling at us and for us.

First published on September 24, 2013, here it is again for you all......look at the pictures and be glad...




In Summer Sweden becomes a colorful dreamland, with shimmery sunlight!! 2013



Mid sommar, a truly Scandinavian holiday!! Mid summer, 2011


Roses, that come around late summer and stay with us till late fall, do not ever let us loose hope for 'brightness'!!  When they wither, there is their fragrance in the air, promising a spring, not too far in the future!!






The Glory of autumn in Sweden is that moon becomes brighter.  As it starts to get dark, the moon shines harder.  I have seen moonlit nights in many countries.  People talk about African moon.  Yup, worth remembering.  But the thing about moon is that it shines brighter in places without pollution.  Scandinavia is probably second only to heaven, as a pollution-free zone!! Fall, 2010







Other indicators that augment autumn are colorful and varied mushrooms and inedible but bright berries.



The above picture was taken for my own diwali celebrations, but come late autumn, and we are lighting candles all over the house.  The warmth lends a kindness to our hearts, and allows us to enjoy winters with a smile!! 





Lights and lights!! but you do not notice light if it is for the dark.  Notice the darkness around the lights, and then you can understand how we love the darkness here, because it helps us enjoy the light. 


Every place has facts maintained a secrets, sometimes voluntarily other times involuntarily to create a mystery around the place or simply to ‘attract or detract’ people from moving there.


These are secrets that we do not know about places, until we live there.


For example, India, all color, messy streets, too many people, bollywood.....and all that. Exciting but scary!! Or scary but exciting--depending on your approach to it all!!  However, there are things that are its essence, neither good nor bad. Just its essence!! For example, there is something special about the earthy smell in the air after a good downpour!!  It feels like Smell of the soil, having a conversation with live souls.  When you smell it, you calm down and feel the smell more in your heart, than your nose. You sense it through your nose but feel it in your heart. The smell of nature, pure, unadulterated!! 

You have to live it, to notice it, to enjoy it, to smell it and then to miss it.


The same with Scandinavia or at least Sweden.  Well, I live in Karlstad, sort of south of Sweden.  Karlstad, according to my friends from the north of Sweden is, well, tropical!!


I often want to ask, 'Have you ever been to the tropics?"


But that is immaterial, because they are right.  In this world of contrasts, nothing is absolute.  


Beauty, temperature, gravity (I think), sweetness, love (is it?), opinion (definitely) !!

So, what are the secrets of Scandinavia, or at least Sweden, or to be more specific my part of Sweden...


Here are some:  Even in late september we have about 14 hour days, -- our short days.


When I was moving here, people were sort of wary, 'Choose Canada over Sweden they said, better life, much more exciting'


There were reasons for why I chose Sweden.  But I do not think my life in Canada (except for the professional part and may be some social part) would be better than it is here.  It would be busier, but I have a feeling it would also be lonelier.  


Sweden, has been an ‘adventure into the unimagined magic' in my life.  Another dimension.  Beyond my imagination. 


In my part of Sweden, we are truly always in transition.  Which means while we may have long 7-8 months of extreme weather, with regards to light, it is always in transition.  Days are still longer than other parts of the world until late September.  The light truly goes down in November.  But starting December 22nd, it starts to go up again.  And the light keeps increasing since then.  Even though the temperatures do not rise consistently until march. The light does. not just the time, but also the intensity.  The light of January, is not the same as that of April, and that differs quite bit from that of June.


So, if you seriously think about it, we have decent amount of light.  Starting February, we have regular days, meaning about 11 hrs of daylight. By May, we have 17 hrs of day light.  Think about it, three months, 6 hrs.  That amounts to 4-5 minutes of increase everyday!! 


In that sense, we have regular days, reeaaaally long days and then some regular days, from February till about late october.  Meaning --about 8 months.  Eight months of good light and decent amount of sun.  Can’t beat that.  Think London, dull, dark and grey --year round.


So, why don’t we know this?  Because it is like the secrets of Seattle (Washington State, the US--my sister lives there and tells me 'raining Seattle is a myth).  They tell you it rains there all the time, so that people will not move there.  Same here folks, we want to keep Scandinavia, beautiful and aloof.  It allows us to keep it mystical.  We are not attention hungry, so it is not touted as a big tourism spot, except maybe for...hikers.


So, you experience not just four seasons, but four seasons in all extremes, especially when studied relatively.  Summers of 25 degree centigrade can be quite challenging with regards to the winter of -27 degree centigrade.  Up north, it is even colder (Yes, there is north of Karlstad and yes people live there).  Spring of 10 degrees with much more green and color of flowers around, is quite drastically different from 18 degrees of autumn, which is mired in yellow and orange. 


But shhhhh....I am telling you, the biggest secret of Scandinavia, it is not as scary as they portray it to be....it is however, more magical than you can ever imagine!!  You just have to experience it to sing to its melody!!




And the wintery glow makes everything silvery, how could we not smile everytime we step outside!!

Preparing for X-mas, come late november we are ready for X-mas.  Light bounces off the snow, and creates this 'other worldly' magic. Disney movies would pale in front of this image!! Imagine walking on this path every evening!! 2011.





Winter wonderland, must be a term inspired by Scandinavia.  Evening walks (which means anytime after 3 pm) are just gorgeous, and we get ready to deep inside ourselves, confront our own darkness, to mull in it, and hopefully come out with some nuggets of new wisdom at the other end. 

Believe me, we have celebrations, and regardless of what people tell you, we are not sad and depressed people.  We know how to party, see the bottom picture....


We can create sparkles on our dinner tables!!, New Year's 2012. 



Friday, August 13, 2021

Green in Summer

 

So published this only two weeks ago on July 30, 2021, publishing again. Why? Because i have been sitting in this yard for the last week to use their internet....Mine is not working.  And the internet company says it can take them 4-11 days. Its been 6 days today and they intend to visit on Monday.  These companies will have to re-think their strategy.  During these times, all our work is on the net...


anyway, the rant can come later. I wanted to brag about my nice neighbours and say a big thankyou to all the good people of the world!!


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I know I missed last week, but much is going on and I did not even have the time to put up an old post. For the next few weeks, and preparing for and teaching a new course.....so may be reposting some old posts.  Till then, have a look at this....the neighbourhood and see how different it is from the times in winter. I will update this post with a few pictures from winter....




Hope you are having a good summer or autumn/winter, wherever you are...


THANKS FOR VISITING. 

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Took this nearly a decade ago.  Was fascinated by the ochre robes and a camera in hand. I asked him If i could take his pic. He nodded.  After all, we live in bodies....and our bodies in certain times.  There are always degrees of what we can carry, what can leave and ....no  matter how 'monk or nun-like' memories are important.....and if we can share them as we saw them through a picture...why not....

With all the issues cameras come with, with all the confusion they cause, they allow us to capture memories like no generation before.  Let us just honor that today!!



Friday, August 6, 2021

August 15: Independence day


So first published on August 17, 2016---picture take in 2014.Why again?

August 15, 2021,India turns 75. Yeah!! Well, the new modern India. India, as a country, with much larger land mass than today has existed for 5,000 years...





I took this picture, probably two years ago.  And forgot to put it here.  Nothing special about this pic, except street children sell these around India's independence day.  This is something that we used to make as children.  But this tricolour here is representative of the Indian flag.  Usually useless, people buy them anyway to put them in their cars. How are they made?  Just take two sticks (we used to pull two thin strings from Indian brooms)--cross them midway, make a knot. And then start wrapping yarn of whichever color you like around the individual sticks, secure it by going all around one stick, push it back tighten in and move to the next step.  Keep going till you arrive at the edges.  Seal off with a neat knot..  These would make simple  handmade-wallhangings.  I have seen them as coasters,although when I made them by hand the coasters would not sit straight and so were not very useful. Regardless, they brought back many memories of when we were learning those 'extra curricular activities' and with every useless thing we created, we felt, Oh so useful!!